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104 East High Street
Manchester, TN 37355

Coffee County
931-723-0380

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Bedford County
931-409-3885

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931-668-9149

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Infidelity

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We Can Help

Infidelity is a pattern of behavior that seeks self-satisfaction at the expense of commitment to another.  It strikes at the core defining characteristics of marriage.

 

Infidelity occurs whenever a person engages in a relationship with another that violates these characteristics of marriage. 

 

This happens when the new relationship results in a breakdown of trust; develops intimacy with another that belongs in the marriage; when experiences are shared with the new person that become more important than the shared experiences in the marriage.  Infidelity can occur without sex. 

 

Simply stated, marriage is a commitment to seek mutual fulfillment, to make your own satisfaction contingent on your spouse’s. 

 

The first steps taken when infidelity occurs are

 

  1. to decide to seek fulfillment through someone else and,

  2. to decide to do this secretly. 

 

In a sense, whatever a person decides to give to a new partner outside the marriage is taken from his or her spouse:

 

time,

money,

special experiences,

confidences, or

intimacies. 

 

A person might experience a similar sense of betrayal if their spouse becomes compulsively involved in:

 

alcohol,

work, or

various activities.

 

In these cases, the element of secrecy is usually not as devastating, and there is not another person alienating the spouse from the marriage.

 

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What Makes the Family Counseling Center different?

We are a non-profit Christian counseling center.

We are not affiliated with any denomination and offer services to all kinds of people regardless of faith or religious background.

 

 

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